Dear Mummy Temilolu,
I started reading your articles in Saturday PUNCH since secondary school. Anytime I come across your posts online my brain will always reset. I struggled till I graduated from university this month and now the one-year, mandatory National Youth Service Corps scheme is calling. I can’t wait to serve God in another dimension again. Thank you mummy Temilolu. I am grateful I’m still a virgin with your assistance. I grew all alone with no motherly advice or anything. I grew without parents but God’s grace kept me ….#Istandforpurity
Dear Madam Temilolu Okeowo,
I like the way you write about sexual purity. Whenever virginity is mentioned some “sex toys” will swiftly kick against it. They will tell you that character matters not virginity. However, it’s sad that ladies do not know that their virginity is not only their pride but therein lies their greatness. As a lady, the man that deflowers you automatically becomes the most important person in your life because that blood that is going to come out from your broken hymen will spiritually form a soul tie with the man. If the man is a thief, you automatically become a thief. If he is cursed, you automatically inherit the curse. If he has demons you will automatically become demonised and could live in trouble all the days of your life. Premarital sex is a major reason why there are many wrong/troubled marriages because they fell into the hands of the wrong persons. As a virgin you must pray well when choosing a life partner. You don’t just jump into any marriage. Tell God you have kept his commandments and it’s time to reward you with a good spouse and the best days of your life. Don’t allow people to pressurise you so the devil doesn’t mess you up with a wrong person. Let me stop here, please keep up the good work ma!
Girls…girls…ladies, beware of area aunties who tell you to enjoy your youth to the detriment of your spirituality.
They don’t have to live around you, they could be family friends or even Facebook friends whom you admire and wish to confide in sometimes. They are the ones that will tell you, life is too short and you must ensure you enjoy your youth to the fullest that there could be no better time. Why should your youth be better than your middle or old age?
These aunties could be married or unmarried. Believe me, most of them have been spent by life and drained of the will and energy to make the most out of life because out of ignorance they didn’t arm themselves and lay a proper bed. Their thoughts about God’s wonderful plans for us have been distorted by the devil. Some of them are envious of you and don’t wish you to get a better life than them while some are terrified of your audacity to be pure and innocent at a time like this- the devil in them just wants the tower of glory building up in you to collapse. Some of them can’t come to terms with your beauty yet decency.
They are the ones who would encourage you to engage in premarital sex, date men and use your body to get all you want regaling you with tales of how their sugar daddies flew them in 1st Class flights all over the world and lodged them at the Dorchester, Waldorf Astoria etc. and today they’re living from hand to mouth possibly looking for men to sleep with to feed after being emptied of their glorious virtues through sex!
May that not be your portion in Jesus name! Your yesterday must never be better than today or tomorrow. I reject it for you in Jesus name.
Don’t let these aunties confuse you. They themselves have been confused by the devil and lost faith in real life. The devil has used and dumped most of them but I pray God will heal their lives.
Lay your bed well now! You’re a queen, loaded with unbelievable and unimaginable spiritual gifts. Preserve your body- God’s temple, let Him process you and men will treat you like the queen you are all the days of your life and not spat out like gall out of their mouths, dejected and rejected.
As you choose to honour God with your body, mind and soul, may you be 10 times greater by this time next year in Jesus name. For everyone else- may the remaining days of 2022 bring you miracles that will make you scream for joy in Jesus name!
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Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a Secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and state of domicile to 07086620576. ,
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